Thursday, February 26, 2009

Visiting Teaching Blues

Visiting teaching and I just haven't clicked for a while.  It just doesn't seem like schedules can mesh and if we do make a visit, we are always trying to cram it into the last week of the month.  I love visiting teaching when it is works, and I hate it when doesn't!  


So I have been pretty discouraged with the whole thing along with various other fears and pressures, and I thought I am probably not the only one.  Sometimes when I am discouraged with things, I am prompted to read past journal entries.  I like to bare my testimony and write about things that I have learned in my personal journal.  Too bad most of the stuff I learn I have to re-learn.  Fortunately, journals are good for re-learning stuff.  So I came across the paragraph from February of 2003:

I feel bad I have not been very close to the Lord lately.  I have done my visiting teaching and I go to church, but I know when the Lord starts to loose ground in my priorities, and that has definitely been happening lately.  Ben said something interesting today.  I offered to make dinner for a girl in my ward because her baby is sick.  He said that the Lord is pleased when we offer what we can even when we don’t have very much to give.  He compared it to the widow’s mite.  When he said that it helped me to see that the Lord doesn’t require to me to spend hours studying the scriptures or go to the temple once a week, he is pleased when I do what I can.  Sometimes it seems like if you can’t give it everything, it isn’t worth it to give at all, but that is Satan talking.  The truth is, the Lord can magnify our gifts to be worth much more than they are worth on the surface, but we have to give what we can.  He cannot magnify the gifts we do not give.

That paragraph is the antithesis of discouragement, procrastination, and fear.  It says, give and it will be enough.  Try and you will succeed.  The prize is worth the effort.  I know that what I wrote that day six years ago was true.  Thanks to the atonement of Jesus Christ, our efforts are sufficient.  We will come off victorious with his divine assistance.  I hope that by posting this, I might help someone else who might be feeling inadequate.  

More on the Border

There was another story in the news today regarding Juarez, Mexico.  Apparently, the city has 1.5 million people, so this is not a map dot.  The police chief just resigned to meet the demands of these drug thugs.  Four of his officers were killed yesterday after an attack from cartel forces with AK-47s and a grenade.  


Not only have they threatened to kill the mayor and his family, but to behead them.  These guys are creating a massively chaotic situation for a city that is literally in our backyard.  Mexico has just deployed federal troops and police to restore order.  I will keep you updated.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Senator Hutchison and the Border Drama

I watched a video today on Fox News that was very disturbing.  What I don't understand is why this issue is not more thoroughly covered in headline news.  This video was not on the front page.  Our Senator from here in Texas revealed several very disturbing facts:


1- Mexican drug cartels are becoming even more sophisticated and violent and they are coming across our borders.

2- A Mexican drug agent recently performed a successful raid and last week he and his entire family were murdered including his two year old baby.

3- The mayor of Juarez, Mexico has recieved death threats from the drug cartels for himself and his family.  He has fled his own country and is currently staying in El Paso, Texas.  The drug cartels are plotting to invade Texas to assassinate him.

After hearing this disturbing news, I went onto Senator Hutchison's website and read even more disturbing things that I have not heard anything about in the national or local news.

1-According to the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives (ATF), 90 percent of the weapons seized in Mexico are from the United States. American guns sold to Mexican drug cartels are effectively making them better armed than the Mexican law enforcement.

2- There is a small war going on in Juarez, Mexico between drug cartels and the Mexican law enforcement. Juarez is only about a mile from El Paso across the border.  Drug Lords brazenly posted a hit list of 22 law enforcement officials on a police memorial in Juarez.  They have killed seven of the people on the list, ten have resigned, and three have been injured by assassination attempts. Last May, a Mexican federal police chief was assasinated in Juarez.

Fortunately, Senator Hutchison was able to tack on 10 million dollars of funding for local law enforcement of border cities in the U.S. including El Paso onto the stimulus bill that was recently passed.  There have been other border victories that are encouraging including this video about the mobile survelliance going on at the border right now.

One disturbing statistic in this second video was that in the last two months of 2008, forty thousand people were detected trying to cross the border from Mexico illegally.  That could be considered good news, but how many did we catch?  How many got through?

Monday, February 23, 2009

Fondue Party

Fondue





Ben and I went to a restaurant called Simply Fondue with Ben for Valentine's Day.  It was so good and fun that we decided to buy our very own fondue pot.  We made a cheese fondue that didn't turn out very good.  The chocolate fondue was very good.  Devin loved it, of course.

Friday, February 20, 2009

Food Storage

I am putting another blog on my blog list and I wanted you all to know in case you wanted to check it out.  It is the Mansfield 2nd ward food storage blog.  I took a glance over it, and it is pretty cool. It has links to a bunch of other food storage blogs.  In this uncertain economic climate, getting prepared for emergencies and tight times is at the forefront of the mind.  Here is a link:


Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Every Rose Has It's Thorn





I was reminded by a friend recently that I am fortunate to be able to start doing yard work in February, so I won't complain too much.  I'll just record my lessons learned.  There is a reason most women prefer a dozen cut roses to tending rose bushes.  They are a lot of work.  Next time I undertake spring pruning, I will be sure to dispose of the cut canes the day I cut them rather than let them get dry and brittle.  It took me a good half-hour, and pokes too numerous to mention, to get them into a bag.  


The rose garden doesn't look like much right now, but give it a month or two, and it will be amazing!  The new rose bush is doing great with lots of new growth budding out.  Hopefully I will get to post a few pictures of plum colored blossoms in a couple of months.

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Valentine Rosebush



Ben bought me a bare-root rosebush for Valentine's Day. I am so excited! It should produce plum colored roses. It will be a very nice addition to our little rose garden. We soaked it for 24 hours in this hamper before we planted it. It already has healthy leaf buds, so all we have to do is just keep them alive.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

FOCA- A Terrible Idea


A was alerted to FOCA by a friend of mine on Facebook.  FOCA is the Freedom of Choice Act.  For those, like me, who don't know what this Act is, I will sum up.  A few years ago, the Supreme Court ruled to support the ban on partial-birth abortions in Gonzales vs. Carhart.  (For information on partial-birth abortions click here.)  In response to this Supreme Court ruling, FOCA was introduced in two separate bills in both the House and the Senate.  The Act would effectively eliminate all state and federal restrictions on abortion.  This law would supersede all other abortion laws and would nulify the federal ban on partial-birth abortion.  Different versions of this Act have been introduced in the past thirty years, but none have passed.  Although I have not been able to find the bill on any current legislative calendars, it is certain that it is not going away.  I will be keeping my ear to the ground and will post if I hear that it has been re-introduced.


I realize that abortion is a controversial issue and many of my friends who may be reading this may not agree with my position.  I understand and respect your right to disagree with me.  In the past ten years I have read a lot about this issue on both sides and would like to respectfully share my thoughts with you, and all others who believe that a woman's right to choose is behind the abortion debate.

From what I have read, the pro-choice movement believes that abortion is a women's rights issue and a privacy issue.  They have many good arguments about the abuse and degradation that women have experienced through the centuries relating to women's reproductive rights.  Historically, women have had very few options relating to when or whether to have children.  Recently, with the availability of birth control and birth options, conditions have improved considerably for women. Pro-choice advocates believe that abortion is another option for a woman.  They argue that this option should not be removed because "some men in Washington" want to limit their choices.  If a woman is opposed to abortion, they should be able to choose not to have one, but if a woman so chooses, she should be able to abort her pregnancy.  

Having been through pregnancy twice, I can see the appeal of abortion.  My second pregnancy was unplanned.  We could not afford to have the baby.  I was sick, depressed, and caring for a child who was less than a year old.  Many other women are in much worse circumstances.  Some have been raped.  Some are barely more than children themselves.  Some face serious and expensive health complications for themselves, or their unborn child.  Abortion advocates seek to help women in difficult circumstances to improve their situations by providing them with as many options as possible.

I hope I have presented a strong case for the pro-choice supporters.  Most of them are as well-meaning as those who are pro-life.  However, I believe they are wrong.

In society, we have laws.  Laws and law enforcement composed of all levels from local police stations, to the President, Supreme Court, and Congress, are essential for members of society to live together in harmony.  The rights of all people must be considered in the creation and enforcement of law.  When the rights of a group of people are disregarded, injustice results.  History is full of such examples.  Usually a society justifies such injustice by the process of dehumanization.  

All human beings have rights.  That is universally accepted.  Of those who are not human, the ethical ground becomes shaky.  If a society seeks to discriminate against a group of people, they must dehumanize them first.  Nazi Germany succeeded in dehumanizing the Jews.  That is how the Germans were able to do the horrible things they did to the Jews.  In their minds, the Jews were not human.

In our society, when a person breaks the law and violates the rights of another person, it is everyone's business.  Through due process of law, the crime is analysed, judge and jury are assigned, lawyers are appointed, and a verdict is reached.  This is all done in the public eye.  Privacy of the individual is important, but there are times when that privacy must be sacrificed in order to see that justice is done.  That is why we have subpoenas and search warrants.  The idea that if someone robs a bank or murders another person that it is their business and that law enforcement should not get involved would be passed off as ludicrous.  

The pro-choice movement's premise that abortion is about a woman's choice, that it is a private matter not to be interfered with by law enforcement, is based on one assumption:  that the unborn child is not human.  If the unborn child were human, the laws would apply as usual.  Those who push the pro-choice position are constantly deflecting the attention from the unborn child and onto the mother.  They tout the importance of the availability of "safe abortions."  Safe for who?  Not the unborn child.  They talk about the "right to choose."  Whose right to choose?  Not the unborn child.  In assuming that the unborn child is not human, they successfully dehumanize the unborn and therefore justify the discrimination and mass murder of a segment of society.

There are those who continue to insist that the unborn are not human when it is obvious to the most untrained eye that they are.  Before modern medicine and sonograms, it is understandable that there would be a debate about when life begins.  Now that there is sophisticated equipment that can show us clear pictures of developing fetuses that are clearly human, we have no excuse.  

When I went in for my first sonogram with my second pregnancy, I was only nine weeks pregnant, and yet I could clearly see a head, a body, and a pair of arms and legs wiggling on the screen.  I could have had a legal abortion, but I would have known that I was terminating the life of another human being.  Layne may not have had a name, a medical record, or a social security number, but he was a human child.  I knew it, and God knew it.

I showed my three year old son a picture of a fetus that was twelve weeks in utero, and asked him what it was.  He said, "A baby!"  If a three year old knows that a fetus is a human baby, what is wrong with America?  We are killing our most vulnerable members of society with no questions asked.  A society that tolerates and fosters injustice does not prosper.  Well-meaning people who espouse the pro-choice position need to look very closely at the assumptions being made.  Don't let the abortion industry muddy the water.  The real question is not about a woman's right to choose, but whether or not an unborn child is human.  If an unborn child is not human, a woman has a right to choose to abort a pregnancy.  If the unborn child is human, a woman has no such right any more than she has a right to end the life of her three month old, two year old, or ten year old.

I have the greatest sympathy with those who are pregnant and need help, but abortion is not an option.  It hurts infinitely more than it helps.  Instead, well-meaning people in the pro-choice and pro-life sides must unite to make the world a better place for both mother and unborn child.  We should never pass off the life of another as insignificant when we look at these issues.

For pictures of fetuses in utero click here.

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Ben's Cake







I made Ben's cake from a German chocolate Pillsbury cake mix and cream cheese frosting. I decided to do a double shell border on top and on bottom and put a string of craft pearls between the borders. Then I pushed the color flow fleur de lis decorations into the side. Ben was really surprised and pleased and everyone thought it tasted really good.

**Word to the wise** If I ever do decorations with craft gems in them again, I am going to be sure and take them off before I cut the cake. My dad almost broke his tooth on one.